BDSM2020

First the stats, I am tall (6'1"), with a slender/athletic build (195 lbs). I am attractive, stay in shape and look slightly young for my age. I am happy to send photos once a connection is established. I do have some private photos viewable by friends.

In my normal life I work in a professional field in Manhattan. I am easy going and like to laugh but also enjoy in-depth conversation. I am smart with lots of high quality schooling thanks to good parents. That education lead me to be inquisitive, analytical and independent in thought. Those traits probably contribute my appreciation for art and those who create. I highly enjoy well prepared food, especially when paired with good wine. Museums, galleries, sporting events or just walking the neighborhoods are always on the agenda. I also like to travel and do so when I can. Whether it be fun in the sun (I am a certified scuba diver), cultural travel (I enjoy reading history), or maybe an adventure with my Mistress (?) I am open.

The other part of me is I am submissive with a good deal of training. However, I also know that there is much to learn and that every Mistress or Goddess will mold her sub/slave into what she desires. I have a very active imagination and I can easily get lost in my role. Especially when my Mistress is equally creative and enjoys the adventure. I am not into other men (in any way) and I am not a fan of pain (though I have of course had my share of spankings, floggings etc). That has made it somewhat difficult to find a new Mistress but I think I am also very sensual, erotic and kinky which I hope will help to balance out those short comings.

While I may not have the ideal qualities of a slave (given my limits on men and pain for example) I have lately been fantasizing of becoming one. For me, the idea would be more along the lines of slaves in Rome, excluding the violence and death etc. By this I mean, when I think of being a slave I imagine a world ruled by women where the men never knew any different and all I do know is that I really want to please my Mistress. Yes, thats not really what Roman slaves thought but this is a fantasy!

Sometimes I think that this would include humiliation but in the fantasy I want to do those naughty things because I know it pleases Mistress. I generally think of Mistress giving me praise and encouragement in these sorts of scenarios which only makes me more aroused and want to please her even more.

So, I am here looking for a New Mistress to help me along this path. The odds are against me, only 10% of women identify as dominant, but if you dont try you fail. I hope for something ongoing, maybe it turns into a relationship or maybe its friends. Given the difficulty in finding a good match, I am more than willing to travel.