erikvank

I’ve been married for years to a nice woman with who I am very happy. I’m quite into bdsm myself. I have a dominant, kinky and sometimes downright perverse side that I like to indulge. My wife is less into that, but has long given me space to experience it outside our marriage.
So I sometimes have occasional dates, but often long-term relationships with woman who are submissive (to me) and with whom I can experience my kinky side. Occasionally I have contact with couples, whom I help as a bull to experience their cuckold relationship or where I help one to dominate the other.
Within those contacts outside my marriage, everything comes along: pain, water sports, exhibitionism, humiliation. It’s not easily too kinky or too perverse. And, with a few exceptions, there is a significant power exchange in it: me as dominant and my partner as submissive. It remains primarily heterosexual. And I care a lot about mutual consent and respect towards all involved. I do experiment with consensual non-consent with girlfriends, but it’s a line I find hard to cross. In my fantasy, I can let go of consent and respect, but for my real life contacts, I wouldn’t want to damage people or their relationships.
I’ve been on Literotica for several years to get ideas. But I do not rule out sharing my own ideas or experiences as well.