i am leanne 42, truly bisexual, since march 2014 out of an 8 year D/s marriage fully collared, micromanaged, structured, disciplined.
i was born in Lille, France but moved to Chicago with my parents when i was 3
This was my second D/s relationship of sorts the first having been with an older woman from the circle of friends of my parents who introduced me to all this and nurtured my latent submissiveness to bloom. i served her for 2 years on weekends. Through her i met my now ex husband.
My marriage ended when my husband filed for divorce. It turns out i can't have any children and as he desperately wanted some it, in the end, ruined our relationship.
He released me from my collar and we separated although still in the same city and we do bump into each other from time to time through mutual friends. It becomes less awkward now and it helps we didnt separate on bad terms, just with sorrow.
It took me a while to get myself together again but managed to do so and am now cautiously seeking a new position with preferably a Dominant couple.
i work for an insurance broker in marketing and communication and would love to continue to do so but will abide by the wishes of my future Dom.
When i was collared i was registered at TSR and when we divorced we decided to delete that entry. just recently i felt i needed to be out there again and registered again.
Slave or submissive is a question a lot of people ask me and i have no definitive answer to that as i feel that depends on the definition people use. i feel a D/s relationship one on one or poly is first a relationship and subject to all the normal dynamics of a relationship, Life needs to be led, work has to be done, chores are there, interaction with family and friends etc etc.
During our marriage we were quite open about the nature of our relationship and i have no issues with that so many of my friends and my family know of my submissive nature and have witnessed some of the dynamics of a D/s relationship in the interaction with my husband except for the more physical discipline side of it.
So suggestions that a slave is not human just property without any rights or needs or limits seem unrealistic to me, throw in being chased around the house with a whip all day and discarded in a cage in the basement when not used and i am lost.
i try to be as open to new experiences as i can and dare and to have as few limits as i can but i have a few hard ones: Permanent Damage, Underaged involved, Full scat, anything illegal.
Looking back i have always felt comfortable following someone's lead be it back in school, in sports, at work or with my parents and find pleasure in pleasing.
i love all outdoors activities, i run, swim, sail, fly gliders, camping, hiking, work out of few times a week as gravity starts to exert its influence, love to travel when i can afford, love to read, movies, theater.
i thoroughly enjoy some of the authors here and am consideting to give it a try myself
leanne
