by clairelovescock
As a guy, all of this comes across as great advice. Didn't see anything I didn't agree with, which is rare for these "How to" guides.
Great article! One extra point, and not everyone's taste, but a cum swapping kiss afterwards is always a nice way of finishing for me.
don;t forget to finegr his ass -- no man can resist a hard shot if u are fingering his prostate
ONE VERY EXCELLENT DESCRIPTION OF A BLOW JOB.
GREAT WRITING AND EXCITING PICTURE OF ONE MIND
as a bloke i think you have it just about right clare.i think i,ll show this to my missus. fair is fair though, have you any tips on returning the favour as most blokes don't mind doing that either. in fact i love it. so let us know whats whats good and whats not.
Claire, if only every woman out there had your attitude to sex.
You are obviously a very very sexy woman.
Great advice for all girls out there, thank you.
To raise the kinky fun, try a hand mirror. Hold it where the woman can see herself licking the cock and whisper sweet-and-nasty encouragement to her. If she truly enjoys cock-sucking, she'll relish the added fantasy of exhibitionism. It's kinda like butt-fucking: We only do it occasionally, when my lady is feeling extra-hot and slutty.
Nice work, Claire. Next, give us some of your fantasy fiction. My guess is you have the erotic potential to make a lotta dicks hard just by letting your imagination run rampant. I'll be looking forward to it.
To raise the kinky fun, try a hand mirror. Hold it where the woman can see herself licking the cock and whisper sweet-and-nasty encouragement to her. If she truly enjoys cock-sucking, she'll relish the added fantasy of exhibitionism. It's kinda like butt-fucking: We only do it occasionally, when my lady is feeling extra-hot and slutty.
Nice work, Claire. Next, give us some of your fantasy fiction. My guess is you have the erotic potential to make a lotta dicks hard just by letting your imagination run rampant. I'll be looking forward to it.
all so very true and correct that I wonder if it was written by a man...
Great Article, the only improvemnet might have been added pictures
Overall this is very good and useful and people seem quick to comment on it. The only thing I am unhappy with is that you seem to think the woman should thank the man for sucking him off! The other way round I think.
I may be a strange man for some of you, but I have never really got off on having my cock sucked. Well, not yet anyway, though my partner assures me she will change my mind, and I'm up for that. With her. Really look forward to finally, in my early sixties, allowing myself to enjoy it...
In the UK sexual culture in which I grew up in the sixties, it really was unusual for a woman to blow a man. So unusual that I think that in a lifetime of much and varied sexual experience, I've only orgasmed in a woman's mouth a handful of times. (Compared to the thousands when women have come on me when I ate their cunts out.)
Ach, maybe I'm just weird?
lol you sound like me well most of it i found that entertaining and fun to read
lol you sound like me well most of it i found that entertaining and fun to read
If more women would follow your simple guide lines there would be a lot more happy men out there. Keep up the good work.
Thanks, Claire. I'm working on a story with oral sex as the focal point and I needed some pointers. Cheers for such an excellent guide.
your article was very hot, and completely accurate in every aspect.
mostly I want to stress that the cum play is the hottest part. pick it up and eat it, smear it around your face/body/clothes/hair.. anything.
A girl that gets kinky with semen is a girl that has a much higher "sexual score" than otherwise.
Sure turned me on to read how a woman likes to give head and loves the taste of cum. Thanks very much!
Loved this article, I havent given anyone a blowjob before but i plan on doing it with a friend soon. Thanks for the tips!
I love your description. And I love women who love cock. I''ve known a few, and when relationships/dates have ended I've always (jealously) envied the next man they've gotten on their knees for. Great touch-- when you describe crawling to your man before sucking him. I hope we meet someday, Claire. I'll have a big load for you.
WOW! You have really thought about pleasing a guy orally! It's interesting that you know MORE than the guy knows about it and obviously use these lethal tactics to tame the beast inside all of us guys.
Great description and excellent writing! You're GOOD...LOL!!
I have never given head before, but I plan to with my boyfriend soon. I was kind of nervous but this REALLY helped! Thanks for posting this, seriously! =]
3.5 yr relationship and not slowing down ^_^ He's one of those "I like being in your throat" guys, and /loves/ him a blowjob. I'll be keeping this in mind the next time I see him ~_^
As a man, I say this article is very accurate. There are a couple of points I'd like to address:
1) "Most guys like it if you push their cock up against their stomach and lick the underside of it." - the underside is more sensitive than the top, so you should in general focus on it.
2) You forgot to mention eye contact - whenever you can, look up and create eye contact with the guy. Especially if you have a unique eye color like blue or bright green.
I love to to give head and I am always looking for new ideas to blow my man's mind. This is an awesome article! Can't wait to try out your tips! ;)
Sry accidentally rated 1 star deserves much higher greatly enjoyed it!
Claire, You can put your technique to practice on me ANY time you like !!
Although I enjoyed reading your presentation, I had mixed feelings about it. I am not well endowed with a 6, 8, or 10 inch dick. In fact I often revert to masterbation because I am tired of hearing my chosen spouse tell me how small I am. Doesn't any one write stories about incest/Taboo and men with a 4.5 - 5 inch dick.
"I had mixed feelings about it. I am not well endowed with a 6, 8, or 10 inch dick."
How big is your partner's mouth? Odds are, a larger-than-average endowment doesn't make this any easier when dealing with orifices neither designed nor evolved to accommodate sexual penetration, especially with a relatively-inexperienced partner.
"Some guys want to do the ass-to-mouth thing they've seen in porn. Leave this one in the videos, it's not worth the risk associated with ingesting your own shit."
One more reason to use condoms for anal. The condom just peels off after, peeling all the crap (literally) with it. It then becomes possible in an all-but-seamless manner to go to another hole (oral without this tasting like poop, vaginal without this causing a vaginal infection) once one becomes tired receiving anal penetration.
Not that I'd advise using the stories on this site as advice for anything anal... if I read "I rammed my ten inch dick up her arse using spit as a lubricant and the pain inexplicably turned to pleasure" one more bloody time, I'm tempted to send the poster to the local prison shower to drop the soap, bend over and see how it feels. First you lubricate, then you dilate, then you penetrate... take it slowly and get it right this time or it's more of a PITA than it's worth (and I'm not saying that to be a smart arse).
I hope everyone reads this. It is the best piece on blowjobs I've read. If you give head the way you write about it, Claire, you can certainly do me anytime, anywhere. I learned a lot and will be referring back often. I like to write about blowjobs (giving them and receiving them). I've been wanting a woman's perspective from a woman who loves giving them. You've provided that. Thank you!!!
I received some amazing blowjobs from my gorgeous GF last year. We're not together any more, but here are the top ten best parts I remember:
1. Stripping each other naked first. The sight and touch of her beautiful body made me rock-hard and ready to feel her lips on my dick.
2. Positions. My favorite was her on her knees while I stood, but she also blew me in bed -- her on top, me on top, or me standing next to the bed while she lay on the bed. The last one let me look at her fantastic ass while she sucked me off.
3. Eye contact. As she took my rigid rod into her warm, sensuous mouth, she would look at me with her soft, blue eyes in a way that said "I love you. I love sucking your cock. You are the only man I want to do this with. I am your submissive woman, and I want to give you the most intense pleasure you've ever known. Shoot your big load down my throat, my handsome stud. I'll swallow it all."
4. Humming. When she did this, it made it even more exciting.
5. Swallowing. Every single time. Every single drop. Telling me afterward how good it tasted, and how much she loved doing it.
6. Her eyes again. That special sparkle in them when my balls would empty. She showed me that it is possible for a lady to smile with a mouthful of cock.
7. Testicle massage. When she would rake my nuts with her nails at the same time she was sucking me, my orgasms would be so much stronger and last so much longer. The volume of semen would increase, which thrilled her.
8. Her tongue on my frenulum, sending me over the edge.
9. Her tongue all over my glans during and right after my orgasm, turning my moans into screams.
10. A special move. She was on her back in bed while I was fucking her between her D-cup tits. Then I said "now!", which was the signal for her to slip my stiff shaft into her mouth while I moved up on the bed. All I could see was the headboard, but all I could feel was her blowjob. I came. And came. And came some more. Screaming the whole time.
I hope these help. Have fun, lovers!
Good advice for anybody that's into oral, the girls are very quiet or satisfying don't push them Above all Give to receive.
I love sucking cock and the taste of a guys sperm i did it first time as a dare on the bus to school i sucked a guy and got a mouthful of his sperm which i just gulped down to the amazement of my friends. I got off the bus went into school and went to the toilets and my pants were soaking and i had to diddle my sex and get off before class. Iv sucked guys at concerts while people watch and love the taste of sperm im fine with being called a slut i really dont care. Iv cumkissed a few guys iv sucked and with girls who have watched and love sharing sperm with people. Loads of love from Angel xxx