by soppingwetpanties
1 star.
A true Domme would have made tubby hit the gym. She would have forced him to actually work out daily, get rid of his flab, make him eat healthy, co from his blood pressure, cholesterol, take his medicine for his enlarged prostate.
Mundane? Yes. But being a dominant isn’t about sex, it isn’t even about power, it’s about giving your sub what the need, when they need it and in a safe, controlled setting.
You and almost every other BDSM author confuse Dominant with a Sadist. A sadist inflicts pain because it turns them on, a Dominant inflicts pain as a lesson. A sadist doesn’t care about their victim beyond the pleasure their agony can give, which is the law of diminishing returns. Like a drug addict, there needs to be more and more extreme for the same euphoric high.
A Dominant cares about the emotional AND physical well-being of their submissive. Giving them what they need vs what they want.
In short, being a Dominant is hard work, being a sadist is easy.
"We celebrated by having my three Dommes whip and fuck me. Clearly one of the best days of my life."
Fabulous line!